Our lives are what we focus on. When I am driving somewhere in a hurry, I often pray, “Please don’t let there be any traffic, please don’t let there be any traffic.” And, then BOOM. There is traffic. I approach a traffic light and say, “I hope the light doesn’t turn red.” And, it turns red. Ever happen to you. It happens to me all the time. Whatever I focus on, put all my energy towards, happens. So, I have decided to put my focus and energy towards the things I want in life, rather than things I don’t want. I’ve decided to make my dreams my dominant thought process.
I would encourage you to take a pen and a piece of paper. Then, write down everything you want and desire in your life. Then take a deep breath. And, go down the list one-by-one asking the same question: “If I could have this right now, would I really take it?” If your answer is anything but an absolute Yes, cross it off and move on to the next item on the list. Go through all the items. At the end, you will have a list of items you truly want to accomplish in life. Next set priority levels to items that you want. Now, focus on things that are your top priorities, and think about them all the time.
How to make something your dominant thought?
There is no one set way to do it. It can be done in multiple ways. A very effective way is to create a Dream Book. Find pictures, write down descriptions, anything you can do to crystallize your vision of your dream. If you dream is a house, write down what kind of house do you want, how do you want the view to be from your front porch, what about the view from the back porch? What about the color of your house? How much property around the house do you want? Do you want it by the ocean, mountain, in the middle of a field? How many bedrooms and bathrooms? What kind of stairs do you want? How many garages? How long and wide should your driveway be? Should you neighbors be close to you or about 1/4 mile away? Crystallize your vision so much that you can literally see your house, everytime you close your eyes. And, put it all in your dream book. Look at the dream book a couple times a day.
Another way to do it, is write your goal & dreams on a index card and carry them in your wallet. Look at them a few times a day. You can also change your desktop’s wallpaper or screen saver to match your dream. Some people change their computer’s password also. Be creative, but make sure you look at your dream at least a couple times a day. The more you look at it, the more your vision will be crystallized.
When you make something a dominant thought of yours, the Universe has a way of changing events and circumstances around to help you bring your dream to life. Only thing is, you cannot give up on your dream. You must want it with all your heart.
Make your dreams your dominant thoughts. Don’t quit on your dreams. You will achieve them.
Hope this helped. Looking forward to reading your comments.
Respectfully,
Mayur
